We agree to it or not, it is a fact that we all keep hunting for that one person, that special one, with whom we can share everything. When I say that word everything, that not just means the sharing of bed, sharing of surnames or sharing of property. It means a lot more than that. It means sharing that wonderful smile each morning after you wake up. It means sharing the bondage of being two humans but one soul. It means sharing that special touch which makes you forget all the worries of your life. Marriage is that strength which brings you above your daily degradations. It motivates you to keep moving. It helps in realizing your goals of life.
But having said all that, never ever be in any sort of a hurry, to select that special one. Because, your impatience might fetch you, someone with whom later, you might not share all the things, mentioned above. Also, the correct time and correct place are very important in this regard. Because they play a crucial role in the sustainability of the marriage. I won't say, love marriages are better or arrange marriages are better. But what really matters is, that the boy and the girl should know each other, thoroughly, then only a yes or no should be a question. A very wrong concept, prevalent these days, is knowing your partner, after your marriage. Which I think shouldn't be happening. Meeting someone just once, and deciding things for the whole life, is like, trying to adjust yourself, for the rest of your life, according to that person. Adjustments aren't wrong, but then this generation has very little scope of adjustments, and hence this practice should be avoided.
A better way is to invite the family, for a week or so, to your place, and let them see, what kind of a person you are in reality. Also the same could be repeated, vice versa, to get assured, that things are right at first place. Thus, this heavenly bond, can be made sustenable, in true sense. Happy Wedding to all my dear friends....!!! :)